Career and Relationship

The following article was sent to my mail box and I decided to share it. It was written by my friend and brother Kelvin Moses.


CAREER

Career describes an individual's journey through learning, work and other aspects of life. There are a number of ways to define a career. When we talk about career we are actually talking of been successful, living or seeing your dreams comes through and utilizing your talent. You can utilize your talent in a different way and it turns out to be a career or occupation to people out there.
It has been said that successful men marry successful women,so you should always allow your career to reflex in your relationship,and let your relationship reflex in you career too.
YOU BECOME SUCCESSFUL,THE MINUTE YOU DECIDE TO
To be successful,one thing you must know is how to MAXIMIZE OPPORTUNITY, to make good use of your time as it is said “make hay while the sun shines” because TIME IS EXPENSIVE. Spend time in doing valuable and profitable things.

“ITS ALL A MATTER OF TIME MANAGEMENT. IF IT MEANS GETTING LESS SLEEP, I'II CONTINUE TO BALANCE MY STUDIES AND WORK” -Raindolf Owusu (Ghanaian Software Developer)

We are all blessed and talented. Discover your talent and utilize it, build your dreams, don't give up, even when you fail, don't quit, take corrections and buckle up.
BREAKING BREAD WITH DESTINY.
Don't be ashamed of what people say. Some may mock you but that should stand as a motivation to you.
IF IT DIDN'T COME TO YOU DON'T ASSUME YOU DIDN'T DESERVE IT,MAYBE IT DIDN'T DESERVE YOU. Remember 'don't quit', keep trying because confidence comes from overcoming your fear of being wrong.



RELATIONSHIP

Am not going to emphasize or talk much about relationship cause I'll bring in everything about relationship/Dating/Sex,on my next articles which is entitle: SEX IN RELATIONSHIP) (S.I.R)

When we talk about relationship, we are basically talking about appreciation, trust, support, love and happiness. Some people are in a relationship while some are in a “relationSHIT”, troubles and quarrel everyday. Sometimes this is due to one's rude attitude, inadequate ability to handle or deal with situation, nagging, envy, distrust, being too critical or maybe when one is a burden to the other.
First before you go into a relationship you must create time to know each other better.
The two hardest things to say in life: 'HI' for the first time and “GOODBYE” for the last time.
No matter how eager one is for a relationship, they should not get involved if they are not ready. This way, they will avoid hurting the feelings of their partner. Every girl wants a guy to make her feel safe in his arms, to hold her tight and to remind her everyday that she is the only girl in his world. Guys have their own desires as well. So as a girl, before involving yourself in a relationship be stable, fix everything you need in yourself, and stop thinking the man will do it for you, you should have a class, standard and some principles.

However, if you've come of age for marriage, you ought to prepare yourself and mind for anything. This is because it is either you're taken to the altar or you're dumped. Be it as it may, not every relationship would lead to marriage. Nonetheless, you should not quit dating because you were dumped. Open your heart and try again. Don't use your past to criticize your next or present. But in the next relationship you ought to be careful, do something new, keep distance, give each other time to miss yourselves, close your legs, and most importantly, no regular pleasure.


REASON WHY SOME RELATIONSHIP DON'T LAST/LEAD TO MARRIAGE:

1) No love, they just lust after each other maybe due to their wealth/glamour, high desire for pleasure.

2)Constant meeting.

3) Inability to cook and/or laziness.

4)Not Active in or poor performance in bed.

5) Above all if one is a liability to the other. He must not always give or you must not always ask. Let them give at their will. Love gives, so if its true love, it would do so naturally.


The above article has been editted but the original article was written by Kelvin Moses.

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