Sex In Relationships

The following article is the second part of the article on career and relationship written by my friend Kevin Moses. Please enjoy your reading.

DISCLAIMER: The ideas contained in the article below are those of the author aforementioned and do not in any way reflect mine. The article talks about sex and so reader discretion is advised.

Basically, this article is primarily about sexual intercourse among humans. Sex has many definitions but for some people, sex is just a penis in vagina. Broadly speaking, sex is the insertion and thrusting of a male's penis, usually when erect, into a female's vagina for the purposes of sexual pleasure or reproduction, (Peter Fendi).

Sex in [a] relationship (SIR) has a very big role to play; as the case may be, it has two faces. Most people take sex as a common thing in our everyday life. Some get laid (have sex) for the money, fine, that comes with a reason but in this case it is different because it is in a relationship. Moreover if possible, you should have a timetable for sex in your relationship. This should be the case if you want it to lead to marriage or if you have plans to build with your partner because as the case may be sex can destroy and also build a relationship. Some dudes will say "the more I have sex with her, the more my love for her increase". Anyway, you never can read a human's mind but I'll tell you this, regular sex with your partner won't keep him, rather it will increase the love he or she has for you. Resist it if he's addicted and then change things. Also, you should be able to control yourself. Starve a guy of sex but don't panic with him, rather you leave for the moment and then watch his action towards you. There is a high probability that he'll show more love and kindness like never before. You might feel or think he's doing it to get you down, well, that's up to you. 

YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITH A GUY ON THE FIRST DATE AND HE ENDS UP MARRYING YOU. YOU CAN AS WELL WAIT FOR A MONTH AND WHEN HE GETS IT, HE'S GONE.

I know this statement may place your heart in a confused state. If and/or when you decide to do it, do it at your will. I will advise that you do not go ahead because of any form of [subtle] pressure; remember it is your pride. Offering sex at his beck and call will 'add colour to his coat' and make you his sex tool. If he finds his way in and finds his way out, then let him go; don't talk another person into staying with you, or loving you. Remember that there is someone for everyone. It wasn't good for Adam to be alone and so, God picked a rib from Adam and created Eve. So to every Adam(Man) there is a woman(Eve) and to every Eve(woman) there is a man(Adam); its all a matter of time you'll find yours.

Furthermore, sex in [a] relationship has two faces;

• Ride or sex well and stay; (and)
• Ride or Sex much and be call a whore.

These apply to both partners. When you sex well you stay, as responsible and mature partners, sex shouldn't be served as a you would a meal. STOP! STOP!! STOP!!! Stop having regular sex in your relationship. Above all, don't talk sex on the phone with your partner, or anyone, it degrades you. If your partner does, don't laugh over it but rather remain silent.

Sex in relationship,applies to both partners,the female should know when to act amateur and energetic but the male needs to apply strength and be more energetic. Take time to work on him/her before going in (that might even be enough). If they tell you how they want it or how to do it, then you ain't hitting it right. Position your legs at the right place, don't wait for him to tell you how and where to place it. Having to tell you all the time may piss him and hatred might start developing. If you do it well with him or her, they would remember you even if and after you leave.

I guess that's one reason your hear a girl screaming another guys name like (Richard) while or when making love to (Micheal), most times it is because Richard is more rated than Micheal. YOU'VE GOT THE KEY! To keep your relationship growing,and to quit it. After trust & communication, another thing that builds a relationship is great sex. Remember, a penis in a vagina is different from love making. YOU'VE GOT THE KEY, so utilize it.

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